SIGNS YOU HAVE A CHEATING GIRLFRIEND/ WIFE

This is very interesting article about knowing if our partners are hiding someone in their closet. There are many relationships in this world that ended miserably just because the men cheated or the men did something undesirable to their partners. Well, is it always the men to blame? But honestly women also did so many undesirable acts in a relationship that their men did not know, and the worst thing they always blame the men as the cheater in the end. So here are some cool signs for men to know if their partners are acting something unusual could they be hiding someone under their bed? 

1) Your Gut Sends You Signals

Does your gut tell you something's wrong?

The very first indicator is your intuition or your instinct. You know when you get that gut feeling that something just isn't right?

Trust it! Even though you may not have any other signs of a cheating partner, your gut is generally incredibly accurate -- unless, of course, you have trust issues to begin with.

I think we're raised to believe in logic. But our intuitions overrule logic, so if you getting signals from your intuition, DON'T try to shut them out, thinking it's 'only in your head'. It's probably not.

2) She Changes her Appearance

Did she change something major about the way she looks?

If you notice a sudden change in your girlfriend's appearance, like new or sexier clothes, a drastically different hair style, or a sudden preoccupation with her weight...... this is one of the huge signs your girlfriend is cheating.

Women know that the best way to get a man's attention is by LOOKING attractive. Obvious, right.

So why would she suddenly change her appearance? You got it! There may be another guy in the picture.

3) She Talks About Another Guy

Does she talk endlessly about another guy with admiration ?

If you have a sister, you may have noticed when and how she talks about a certain guy, who she obviously has a crush on.

She tells you little stories about things he does or gives you small details about his life.

Well, if your girlfriend is suddenly discussing some guy she works with or met in this same way, this could be an indicator your girlfriends cheating -- or more accurately, it probably hasn't gotten that far.

She's just infatuated.

But if she suddenly STOPS talking about him or bringing him into conversations, this is one of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.

4) Physical Contact or Sex Decreases

Does she seem uninterested in sex with you?

This one should be obvious. Remember, if a woman isn't sleeping with you, in all likelihood, she's sleeping with someone else.

So if a woman rejects your advances or moves away from you when you initiate physical contact, this is one of the major signs of a cheating girlfriend.

Especially if this begins happening regularily without an obvious reason and it is also very different than how things were eariler in the relationship.

So if she's distant and you're getting that gut feeling that something isn't right, there's a good chance your girlfriends cheating. 

5) She Gives You Too Many Details

Does she give you detailed explanations of her affairs?

If your girlfriend suddenly starts giving you detailed explanations of what she did last night or where she was, this is another of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.

Sure, women can talk a lot. But doesn't a complete narrative of what she did seem a little strange? Especially if it's out of her character.

Perhaps this will sound odd, but...

It may be that she's feeling guilty and trying to prove she WASN'T cheating -- even though you haven't and didn't even expect it.

But if your girlfriend is trying to cover for herself without you even giving her a reason, she probably has one.

6) Unexpected Gifts or Favors

Is she suddenly being extra nice when she wasn't before?

Most women who cheat do feel guilty about it.

So another of these signs your girlfriend is cheating on you is if she starts doing extra special things for you. Things she didn't do before.

If your girlfriend surprises you unexpectedly by buying you things or doing little favors for you, she may be feeling guilty about what she's done or is doing. And she's being extra nice to make herself feel better about it. 

7) Mutual Friends Act Strange

Do your mutual friends seem to behave oddly around you?

Most friends don't want to get caught in the crossfire, so even if they know your girlfriends cheating, they won't say anything.

Good friends will, even though they know it may make the situation uncomfortable for them.

But most will act weird around you. You'll pick up an uneasiness when they're around you and you may catch a few 'knowing' eye contact exchanges between them.

So if you're getting a weird vibe from friends, this may be another of the signs of a cheater partner.

 

8) Things Just Don’t Add Up

Did you find out later she lied about something?

Finally, things just don't make sense or add up when thinking back.

Perhaps your girlfriend said she was going somewhere, but later you find out she wasn't even there. 

Or much later, she mentions she was somewhere she 'shouldn't' have been without her thinking about what she's saying.

And it just doesn't click probably.

This is another of the signs of a cheating girlfriend.

Again, trust your gut. And though we're taught not trust these unseen 'powers', your intuition is probably the most reliable thing you can use.

Trust it!

It's the most reliable of the signs your girlfriend is cheating. 

9) She's no longer as needy

If she was never able to go shopping, exercise or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It's possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she's unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she's just no longer as needy... of you.

10) She no longer gets angry

She used to get angry if you didn't want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but it should make you wonder why she no longer cares.

11) She places the focus on you

When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox's batteries have run out, and when you ask her how her night was, mum's the only word. It's now all about you, you, you, rather than "I did this" and "I went here last night."

12) She showers you with Pleasure

Now that it's all about you, your girlfriend is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you "I love you" cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it's this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she's bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what's really going on.

14) How to handle it

There's no need to get paranoid and suspicious if she's exhibiting any of the signs you have a cheating wife. If you think her recent behavior isn't adding up or you catch her lying, do not accuse her of cheating. Think about whether or not she's given you a reason to suspect her of two-timing you, or whether it's your imagination running wild because you're afraid of losing her.

Here's how to handle your suspicions:

 

 15) You have a Feeling

If you think she may be cheating, approach her but don't bring up the cheating. Ask her if everything is OK, and tell her that she's been acting different lately. Give her examples of how her behavior has changed, and tell her that you want to know and understand if there's a reason for it.

You want to open the lines of communication and encourage her to open up about what is troubling her in the relationship, and proceed from there. When she's showing the signs you have a cheating wife, approaching her can be a delicate situation.

16) You have more than a Sneaking Suspicion

If you have adequate reason to believe that she's cheating on you, do not accuse or threaten her because if you're wrong, she'll feel that you really don't trust her. Rather than exclaiming, "I know what's going on!" or "Who have you been messing around with?" ask, "Is there something I should know?" or "I have reason to believe that you're not being 100% honest with me."

This may seem passive, but you want to approach the topic carefully because if you're wrong, you may be messing up big time. If you're right, however, you have permission to raise hell.

17) You catch her or have concrete evidence

If there is no way that this is a misunderstanding and you are positive that she's been pawing another dog, approach her with more assertion. Tell her what you saw, how it makes you feel, and what you plan to do about it.

CAN YOU EVER TRUST YOUR CHEATING GIRLFRIEND/WIFE AGAIN??

1) Forgive and Forget

Being unfaithful in a relationship is horrible, but there is a bigger picture here. You have to realize that a cheating GF/wife may be the result of a problem in your relationship. If she's deceiving you by getting cuddly with another man, it could mean that she is going elsewhere to find what your relationship lacks -- which doesn't make her actions right, but only less despicable.

If you discover that she cheated on you, there are a few questions you must ask yourself:

 

2) Can you trust her again?

If the answer is no: You can't get back together.

If the answer is yes: It may take time, but you can give it another try. You'll have to tell her that it'll be hard to trust her, but with her help and time, it can happen.

 

 

3) Why do you think she did it?

If she doesn't tell you why: You'll have to evaluate whether you can still forgive her.

If it has to do with your relationship: When you're ready, you can work on the problems in your relationship.

4) Is your relationship worth another try?

If you can move past her deceit and give her another chance, then when you're ready, sit down, talk to her, and try to understand why she did it. There may be no reason at all (it could just be the fault of stupidity with a pinch of vodka), but if there is a reason why she cheated on you, then ignoring why she did it can lead it to happen again -- and then you'll be cheating yourself.

5) Once a Cheater...

We all make mistakes, which doesn't make cheating acceptable, but if she shows remorse for her actions and if she's worth the effort of giving it another shot, then you can forgive -- although you may need more time to forget.

Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs which might give one a clue as to whether (and exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating.

The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can’t remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.

Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party – either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.

Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.

Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl’s daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.

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BEST OF LUCK!!!