FLIRTING TIPS FOR GUYS

 

The Art Of Flirting

Many people flirt for many different reasons. Single people flirt as well as married people flirt too. However their reasons for flirting can sometimes mean the same thing or they can actually flirt for other reasons. 

Technically Flirting means showings actions that are playful, romantic indicating to another person that they would like to take their relationship to another level. These actions can be verbal as well as can be physical in nature. Whether it be verbal or physical, these actions represent a manner that suggests mild intimacy over a friendly relationship that expresses appropriate etiquette when in public.

Now as stated before, many people flirt for many different reasons. The typical reason for flirting is when a single man or single woman is trying to get the attention of someone that they are attracted to. This type of flirting can be in the form of a stare, a wave or a smile. Once the two people start to communicate then more flirting may be accomplished with communication. Flirting by communication can be in the form of a compliment or personal talk that does not make each of the people feel uncomfortable but makes one or the other people feel flattered.

Now some people who may or may not be single enjoy Flirting as a form of attention. They enjoy the attention of others reactions when they flirt with other people. This can also be in the form wave or a smile. Flirting with communication also comes by giving certain compliments or making people laugh about certain personal issues. And when it all boils down some people just naturally flirt not knowing that they are actually giving of these feelings to others.

No matter if you are single or you are married or in a relationship, flirting can actually be healthy. It brings out feelings within that are really great for your body and for your soul. It also helps with attracting others and it also helps keep a long lasting relationship feel fresh and revived. Flirting can also be in a physical form but be careful as to not be to physical as this can make some people feel very uncomfortable.

Flirting Tips For Guys - What Girls Want??








It’s a definitive guide to meeting and interacting with women but there is a lot of cross-over with body language.

If you’re too lazy to read it properly then don’t expect great results.


Let's be honest - you wouldn’t be looking at this page if you weren’t interested so do yourself a favor and read it properly.


Perfect Man Flirting
There’s a lot of rubbish been written about this in the past so here’s the facts.  Looks do matter, size does count (your shoulders not your penis) and women do compare notes.  The good news is that you live in the age of miracles. (Hair dye, plastic surgery and Viagra)

KNOWN OR UNKNOWN

Flirting will either take place with someone you already know or with someone you’ve never met before.  Both situations have their pros and cons.  It’s quite common for a friendship to suddenly go sexual and it is also just as likely that you’ll meet someone at 9.00pm in a nightclub and be in bed with them by 1.00am. (A little later if you’re in New York.) In either case, flirting and body language will play a huge part in the interaction but may be very different with regard to what and how it is done.  For example, with people you’ve never met before first impressions are hugely important but with people you know then it may be all about changing the impressions that they already have.  Sometimes people you know will start flirting to test the water and sometimes people you don’t know will flirt with you just to check that they’re still attractive.  When it comes to flirting and body language it’s a game with some very complex rules but here’s the point – if you don’t play you can’t win. 

If you already know someone …
There are advantages and disadvantages of flirting with people that you already know.  The key to the success of your flirting often depends on what the other person secretly thinks about you.

We know this guy that has been hot for a woman for more than twenty years since they were at school together.  One day she looked over at this guy and a switch flipped in her head and she started broadcasting to him.  He responded and they got married a little while ago.  

What triggered her to suddenly find him attractive?  Well he’d just turned 35 and had decided to join one of those clubs where you do “stand-up” comedy.  Turns out he was good at it.  Suddenly she saw him in a whole new way.
When we already know somebody we risk losing whatever relationship we have with that person if we switch tracks.  Naturally, people are reluctant to lose what they already have.
The key to attracting and flirting with somebody that you already know is to change the way they see you.  This can require dramatic action. 

Say you’ve been as boring and inactive as pond scum lying on pool for ten years and suddenly take up sky diving then you’ll certainly get peoples attention.  

A positive aspect of flirting with somebody that you already know is that you probably have established a degree of trust with that person.  This makes your efforts seem more sincere. 


If it’s a stranger
On the whole we would say that it is easier to flirt with a stranger than with a friend.  Strangers have to judge you on first impressions and how you project yourself.  You are a blank canvass that can be painted in the colours most suitable to the occasion.  In short, you have the luxury of re-inventing yourself.  On the downside, there is probably very little trust.


TIME AND PLACE

Another factor that will impact on your flirting is time and place.  It can start and take place anywhere but the simple rule is that it has to feel right.  It’s not uncommon for business colleagues to flirt outrageously in the office and then suddenly go cold when they’re in an intimate environment.  The reason is simple – in the office the flirting is safe – it’s practice. 

In an intimate environment it’s serious with all the attached consequences.  That doesn’t mean that it can’t happen in both places – it often does.  

In this case the office is the warm up for the real game.  On occasions, it actually is the real game and the photocopier gets to make some interesting images.

The best and most common time-and-place for flirting is when it has the potential for both commitment and escape.  This makes parties, nightclubs and other social gatherings ideal.  

There’s plenty of opportunity for flirting (strangers and friends) but there is also a “safe” environment – at least to start with.  

PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT

Flirting is about what you say and what your body language says.  The absolutely most important rule is that they must say the same thing.  If they don’t, and women are good at recognising this, then you’ll just make them feel uncomfortable.
Practice flirting!  You wouldn’t pick up a golf club and expect to win the first time you play.  Here’s a tip about flirting – girls are naturally just better at this – guys do need to practice.  Most guys naturally know how to fight - most girls don’t have a clue.  It’s just one of those things.
Practice that sexy smile, that wistful glance, that “you’re hot” wink and get it right.  You’ll just make a fool of yourself if you get it wrong. Practice! Mirrors are helpful. 

If you want to know how it should look then watch a few of the male actors in some of those chick flick films you wouldn’t want your buddies to ever know you’ve watched.  At the moment the girls are hot for George Clooney, Josh Hartnett, Brad Pitt, Jonny Depp and Paul Walker but that’ll change in a year or so. Just watch how they do it.  
One last thought.  Not all men have the physical “looks” and “attributes” to pull this off.  Be honest! If you’re 250 pounds, have less hair on your head than a shaved porn star, wear glasses and sweat badly when you meet people then it’s probably a bad idea to try and emulate Jonny Depp. Still, you’re not out of the game you just really really need to read the section on what women want and do something about it. (Remember – Age of Miracles)

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT? (THE TURN ON)

What do women want?  Well that’s the toughest of all questions because more than half the time they’re not sure themselves. (We’re not being patronizing – just truthful.) What women want changes depending on their age, their culture, the century and the time of their menstrual cycle?  For millennia, men pondered this question then, as their heads started to hurt, went and got drunk.  Many still do.  However, thanks to the internet and the sudden surplus of information available, it’s possible to finally understand this mystery.

This is what women want – most of the time – but they will happily settle for just some of it and, in certain cases, very little of it.  Beware – it’s confusing.  In general, women want men that are …


1 Tall rather than short (or at least taller than the woman)

2 Dark haired rather than blonde

3 Handsome rather than plain

4 Masculine but clean (hygiene is important to woman)

5 A little rough and dangerous but safe and gentle – with them

6 Risk takers until they’re married and / or have children

7 Flat stomach - small butt

8 Broad shoulders - narrow waist

9 Wealthy or have future wealth potential

10 Leaders rather than followers

11 Able to make them feel good even if it means lying (convincingly)

12 Confident and relaxed

13 Popular with others but focused on them – the woman

14 Physically fit but not so it dominates their lives

15 Intelligent enough to understand them but definitely not a nerd

16 A little wild but tamable

17 Adventurous in their past and present but only adventurous with her in the future

18 Unpredictable – for a while

19 Experienced with sex but prepared to give up other women for them

20 Good listeners

21 Definitely not weird – unless being weird is the norm for the social group

22 Able to dress with style and reasonable fashion but not a dandy

23 Loving but not possessive and stifling.

24 A sense that they're prepared to walk away – if they really feel like it

25 Able to make them laugh!  (Hugely important)


Very Important:   

Statistically, the number of men that have all the characteristics listed above is less than 1.4%.   So … the good news for most men is the “Rule of Five”.  Most women will be pleased with their catch if the man has just five (5) of the above characteristics. That’s just one fifth (1/5).  Try it and you’ll see what we mean.  Pick any five characteristics at random.  Write them down and then use them to describe an imaginary friend to a single woman that you know.  See how she reacts.
“True men want fame, fortune and glory and a son to leave it to.  Women want men to achieve this and then to be desired so much that they will give it up just for them.”
There are a lot of hidden truths in that statement but one that is often overlooked is this.  Women don’t want men to give up insignificance, poverty and being scorned for them.  That’s no sacrifice at all.  The heart of this statement is about proof.  Above all else, a woman wants proof of a man’s desire. 

WHAT WOMEN DON'T WANT! (THE TURN OFF)

However … and this is a big however, if the man has any of the characteristics listed below then his chances fall incredibly fast.  These are called: “Contact Killers”.


1 Has an very unpleasant or unusual body odour Could be illness

2 Has noticeable rashes or advanced skin disease of any sort – Illness and Disease

3 Has distorted or imbalanced facial features – May imply genetic issues

4 Sweats uncontrollably – It implies illness or anxiety therefore not an alpha

5 Is “laughably” socially awkward Implies ill adjustment

6 Is noticeably feminine – Could be secretly gay?

7 Is fat – a butt the size of two pigs in a sack - No self control / physical weakness

8 Has bad teeth / breathe – Not kissing a dirty drain.

9 Is really, as opposed to just interestingly, weird. I.e. He collects frog spawn as a hobby and believes it could be tomorrow’s wonder-food. – Unbalanced!

10 Is too old or just looks too old – No kids there.

11 Comes across as desperate - Loser.

12 Over 25 and lives with his mother – Let’s not go there!

So before you even think about women take two steps.  Firstly make sure you have none of the “Contact Killer” negative characteristics.   In most case these problems can be cured – even if the solution is a little dramatic such as plastic surgery.

Secondly, pick five of the characteristics from the “positives - what women want” list and really work to emphasize them.  Pick a second five that you don’t have and disguise them.  So if you’re quite funny become really good at making girls laugh.  If you’re short wear shoes that increase your height.  If you have dark hair then grow it longer.  If you’re a bit boring take up an adventurous sport. 

THE RIGHT ATTITUDE

You have to have the right attitude.  Women are incredibly able to pick up “vibes’ relating to your attitude.  If you’ve sorted out any personal “contact killers” and have perfected at least five of the positive characteristics then you should be confident.  Project the right “aura” – you’re a leader, fit, funny, practiced in the right body-language and stylish.  You’re already in the top 5%.  You’re not scared of rejection.  You don’t need to be drunk or have twenty buddies edging you on. You know that you’re going to lose some and be able to laugh it off. You also know you’re going to win some and that’s what counts. 

OBSERVATION AND SELECTION

So now it’s time for flirting and body language recognition.  You don’t just see a woman you’d like to get to know and go and hit on her. Sure there’s a small chance that you’re so hot that you’ll get away with it but if you’re not extraordinary (1.4%) then you’ll do it this way.
The first step is to use your powers of body language observation to identify the women that are broadcasting their availability.  They’ll be accessible and positioned to make an advance reasonably easy.  The clothes they wear, the way they’re sitting or standing and how animated they seem are all clues for you.  Now would be a really good time to read the section on female flirting signals. Don’t waste your time on those women that are not broadcasting.  Your chances will be low – very low.
Once you’ve identified a potentially available woman that you are interested in, even if it is a previous friend, you need her to notice you.  One thing to your advantage is that if she is truly available she’ll be looking too – just not as obviously.  Don’t expect her to see you hiding in the shadows or five rows deep behind your buddies.
In brief, you’ve got to position yourself close enough to her so she can see you and yet do it in a way that seems casual, confident and comfortable.  It’s helpful not to appear alone at this time.  Perhaps you and a just one buddy wander over and with luck she’ll notice you and send a signal.  Usually it’s eye contact and the slightest raising of her eyebrows. It’s Ok to respond with a gentle grin or sexy look and hold her eyes with yours. Don’t look away before she does. This is called “lingering eye contact.”  It’s a red-hot signal and it shows you’re confident and interested.  She’ll probably smile a little and then look down.  If you’re not sure it’s OK then wait to see if she “broadcasts again”.  If she does so then now’s the time to act.  Some women will be prepared to keep broadcasting even if you don’t react but most will give up after three attempts.
  • Generally the female Signals and the Male Responds (Only true Alphas should broadcast first)
Obviously the circumstances will impact on how you behave.  In a nightclub you’ll move in fast and she’ll expect you to do so.  However, at a garden party your flirting may be less obvious and slower.  When it’s with a group of friends you may need to keep sending signals to each other for quite a while before you can get some space without everyone watching.  Here’s a really good tip – stay sober or at least reasonably sober.  





BE SUAVE & SEXY

JUST FLIRT

MAKE HER LAUGH


HOW TO BE THE CHOSEN ONE (Key Flirting Tips for Men)

What makes a woman decide that you are worth a flirting signal – especially if she’s never met you before?  Initially it’s your appearance and body language. Some say that it’s as much as 80% of her decision. We’ve already covered appearance so now onto body language.  These are the top male body language (flirting) signals of the available and attractive male.


1 Stand tall – don’t slouch

2 Keep your shoulders back

3 Keep your chin up

4 Suck in the stomach (but not obviously so)

5 Casually look around – scan but don’t stare

6 Make eye contact with women (very important)

7 Position yourself at the centre of the action – you’re an Alpha Male

8 Move casually and confidently

9 Lead don’t follow

10 Don’t cross your arms (unless its freezing cold)

11 Send out flirting response signals - or even initiate a few of your own

12 Show off your physique – if it’s good.

13 Be groomed in a very, very, casual way

14 Laugh and make people around you laugh with you not at you

15 Display wealth – appear wealthy

16 Never tuck both hands into your pockets (unless it's freezing)

Barbie Doll & Action Man

Being smart, you’ll notice that they weren’t called Geeky Doll and Boring Man.


If you want to understand the “stereotypical male and female” sex symbols then take a look at these toys. 

Action man is dark, fit, muscular and an adventurer.  Barbie Doll is lithe, fit, has prominent breasts and is blonde. (The name was very sexy in the late 50’s and also the name of the inventor, Ruth Handler’s, daughter)  Based on her measurements, if she really existed, she’d make the average centrefold model look flat-chested.

Ken - Barbie's on-off boyfriend, is a somewhat less-rough version of Action Man. In short, he’s an androgynous non-threatening stereotype for young girls. Perhaps post 50's people would be less confused today if the makers of these toys had included plastic genitals.
What’s the point? The point is that these toys work because they subconsciously appeal to very young people who recognise them as winning formulas in the flirting and mating game. Just ask yourself how many blonde women dye their hair dark? How many men wish they had fewer muscles? Generalizations? Yes. Stereotypes? Of course. True? Definitely!
Flirting - Barbie

Ken

Action Man
BARBIE

KEN

ACTION MAN / G. I. JOE
So ... Who do you think Barbie really wanted? (Notice that both men have blue eyes and dark hair)

THE APPROACH
Don’t sweat it!  No … we really mean don’t sweat it – nervousness causes unpleasant sweating.  For most men (you’re not alone) this is the hardest part.  Men feel as if everyone is watching them and waiting to see if they score or bomb out.  Adrenaline is flooding their bodies causing them to experience the masculine “Fight or Flight” response to stressful situations.  

Of course – the problem is that meeting a woman is neither.  As with everything in life, the more you do it the less stressful it becomes.  Adrenaline is a catch-22 hormone. 

It prepares men for action but can also make you appear rigid (not in that way) and awkward.  The more approaches you make the more relaxed you’ll become.  So what if the first 10 women laughed you off – who cares!  The world is full of sexy beautiful women.  Remember the golf game – nobody, especially you, should expect to win the first time you play.  

According to General Taurusian Von scheißen just do the math.  There are more than 60,000 nightclubs around the world.  On any night each of these nightclubs has at least 25 single and available women inside.  

That means that each year more than 547,500,000 (half a billion) women are waiting to meet somebody special.  In short you can screw up 547, 499,999 times before you run out of opportunities.  Yes … it is B.S. but we hope that it gets the point across.  You actually have very little to lose by losing as long as you have the guts to try again.

One last thought on this subject is this:  The motto of the SAS, the most feared airborne commando unit in the world, is “Who Dares, Wins!”  It’s not “Take Care and don’t lose” Says it all really!

HUMOUR - MAKE THE LADIES LAUGH - BUT NOT AT YOU

Women are generally very attracted to men that can make them laugh.  You could read a book on this and why it works and still not completely understand it.  

In short, psychologists claim that laughter releases “feel good” hormones that are very similar to sexual hormones and this makes a woman attracted to the man that is causing her to feel the way she does.  

This could well be true!  Everyone knows a guy who is seriously overweight and definitely no longer handsome but can take his pick of the single women he meets just because he always makes them laugh.  

Sometimes he tells jokes, sometimes he teases them but eventually he gets what he wants.  It’s a rare skill.
Really! Make them laugh.

DON'T COME ON TOO STRONG

If there is one thing that all women have an issue with it’s their fear of desperate guys.  Desperate guys are a big, big turnoff.  

Life is too short to try and understand why but guys that “try-to-hard” are definitely on the scrap heap before they even rev up the motor.  

Guys actually feel the same about girls.  If you don’t get what we’re telling you then watch the music video “Too Fly for a White Guy” by the band “Offspring” or listen to the song “Some Girls Try to Hard” by “Blink 182” .  

You should be interested in her but not so into this contact that the girl suddenly starts thinking, “Am I the first girl that this guy has talked to in his life?”

She has to believe that you’ll walk away at any time if you feel like it.  Maybe girls like a challenge?  Maybe they don’t want what any other girl could have had.  Who the hell knows exactly, but wise up – “Too keen and you’re a has been”. 

MATCHING THE PACE
This is where the guys often go wrong.  You recognized the signals and acted.  You talked, she talked and you’ve got stuff in common. (A good thing)  You made her laugh. 

Your body language is right and so is hers and then you moved too fast (or not at all) and blew it.  Does this sound familiar?

So she touched your hand?  This wasn’t a signal to jump the table and try and stick your tongue down her throat.  Here’s the rule – match the pace that she sets.  Mimic her body language without making it obvious.  

It’s a game guys and she wants to see if you know the rules.  If she’s moving slow then take it easy.  If she’s going fast then don’t wimp out and back off.  

If she leans forward then so do you.  If she accidentally touches you then you need to respond at the same pace.  This is the warm up before the game.

Oh, by the way, if she’s moving really, really, really slow then find someone else.  Even if it works out then you’re letting yourself in for a world of frustration – maybe decades of it.  Girls should have just the same level of sex-drive that guys have.  They just use it differently.  If it’s too, too slow then it’s a no go.  Do yourselves a favor and find someone else!

BODY POINTING

Body pointing is powerful Mojo (body language magic involving the soul or your very life force).  

Make sure that your body faces (points) towards hers.  She should be pointing hers towards you.  This achieves two things.  

Firstly it excludes other people (men and women) that might interfere and secondly, it shows readiness and attraction.

MIRRORING

People that have an affinity for each other tend to subconsciously mimic each others body language.  Affinity means liking each other.  

This is pure body language wizardry.  You can gain an edge by making sure that you’re body language mimics hers but don’t be stupid and make it obvious.  

This means not copying her every move but rather using similar body language in general – say a minute later.) Just remember, she’s just as smart as you are – maybe more.  God help two people that have both read this and then meet each other.



MORE USEFUL FLIRTING TIPS


Look at her mouth but don’t ignore her eyes

As you talk don’t be afraid to look at her mouth.  Watch her lips move as she speaks.  

Most women can sense when a man starts looking at their mouth and know that this is a subconscious desire to kiss them.  

This is a powerful flirting tip for men. It shows desire, sincerity and hunger for them.  Still, don’t be so obvious that she thinks that you have a lipstick fixation.  

With effort, tear your eyes away from her lips and meet her eyes.  Look deep and passionately into her soul.  She’ll love this. Very Hot!

Don’t be Afraid to Blink

The rule is that the more that a person blinks the more stimulated they’ll find themselves.  By blinking yourself you’ll trigger her to start blinking too. 

If things are going well then her blink rate will start to match yours.  

The more she blinks, the more she is going to feel attracted to you.  

Please don’t overdo this.  If you sit there batting your eyelids like some neurotic psycho then she’s going to run a mile.  This is definitely a case of “less is more”.  Use it wisely.

The Eyebrow Flash

Eyebrows and what they do are a micro-tell.  

Both women and men just can’t help lifting them when they see someone they’re attracted too.  

The problem is that this body language subtle and is often done in less than a microsecond.  You’ll need to be a pro to recognize this.

Keep her Talking

Women do talk more than men.  Here’s the truth – women want to understand the world – Men want to change it.  

Understanding requires explanation – words.  Change requires action.  Let her talk.  As she talks the more comfortable she will feel with you.  Still, don’t let her forget why you’re there with her.  You want sex.  

You’re not her psychiatrist.  Talking is good but too much of it is bad.  If you allow her to use you as a listening post then you’re a girlfriend.    

Gently focus her on the moment and the reason you’re together. This is a really good time to use your humour skills.  Make her laugh.   

Get her talking about the moment – after all the moment is you.

Don’t try and fix her – She’s not broken

Women are extremely casual about self-disclosure.  This means telling you about themselves and their issues. 

For a man this can be scary stuff – way too much information.  Surf it as you would a wave. As a man you’ll instinctively want to “sort-out” the problem. 

Here’s a tip guys.  Women don’t think like you do.    

Women don’t want to be fixed.  They want to see how you respond.  If you try and fix their issues then you’re a girlfriend. 

If you have the strength to continue focusing on her as a sexual person then you’re a potential mate. This behavior maybe some kind of test that we haven’t a clue how to explain.

Find the similarities

The science of liking and attraction lists similarities as a very important factor in any relationship.  Find things that you have in common – emphasize them.  

If she says that she really liked the film “Four Weddings and a Funeral” don’t tell her you thought it was a load of sentimental crap.  

If she tells you that fashion is a retrospective statement of inner desires don’t laugh, grab your balls and say. “So is my ass!”  For a start she may be right.

Just remember – she is probably looking for a relationship while you are probably just looking for sex.  

She knows that similarities mean agreement while the opposite means division. 

The good news for you guys is that as a relationship develops both men and women are prepared to accept fewer similarities.  

In fact, some of the best relationships develop between people that are quite opposite – but not in the beginning.  

No worries

Women feel comfortable disclosing things about themselves and expect you to do the same.  They may tell you about the things that worry them – this is allowed.  

It makes them vulnerable.  You can’t do this.  For God’s sake never tell them you have issues or problems.  

You have to project the appearance that you have the world in your hands.  You could say that this is a trap.  

They want to see if you’re really a well-adjusted, well-off, alpha male.  If they tell you that they have an issue, you tell them you you’ve just succeeded at something.  

They’re projecting vulnerability but you’re projecting strength.  It may sound like B.S. but it isn’t.  Only very disturbed women with mother image complexes want men that have issues.  

Touching

We just touched on touching but be need to explore this some more. 

Let’s say that you do like her.  She’s good looking, sexy, fit and most importantly, she likes you.  What happens next is a very serious flirting (sex) signal and you should only use it if you’re ready.  

The body language you’re going to use is the accidental touch.  Consciously or subconsciously you let a part of your body touch hers. 

It might be that your leg rests against hers as you adjust your posture or that you reach out and touch her hand as she says something sexy or appealing.  

Whatever the circumstances – you’ve made body contact.  A normal, well adjusted, girl will respond in equal measure.  Contact!

If she ignores the tentative touch then she’s not ready or maybe an amateur when it comes to the flirting game.  

If she overreacts and tries to grab your balls then she’s either seriously desperate or very horny.  

Try not to take advantage of desperate women – at best you’ll hurt them and at worst they’ll come back and boil your bunny. (Fatal Attraction -1987) Nymphomaniacs are another issue for another time.  

If you’re comfortable with the way things are going then your touches will become longer and more obviously deliberate.  If she’s hot for you then she’ll keep pace with you and do the same.  Both your intentions are clear – physical contact is very OK!

No ... we can’t just be friends!

We’ll keep this short.  If you’re unlucky, or unskilled, then your contact will cool down. She likes you but not in the way you want.   

No matter how much you want this woman, the moment she says “Let’s be friends” then do this: Leave!  You don’t want to be her friend you want to be her lover. 

Biologically, she’s classed you as a supporter not a mate.  We’ll say it again, “leave”.  You’re wasting your time.   

By leaving you might actually gain a second chance. You’ve redefined the game in a dramatic way.

Where to now?

From here on out it is really about how far you go.  Perhaps you’ll kiss a few times and agree to meet again or perhaps you’ll wind up in bed together engaged in wild monkey sex.  Just remember that the further you want it to go the more body language signals you’ll need to send to each other.

For women this is a much more serious commitment than you’re making.  If it all goes wrong then they wind up with a kid and you wind up somewhere else having fun while some rug rat chews (often painfully) on their nipples as they count the stretch marks that your night of passion left them with. 

Don’t be the bastard that you’re capable of being.  Realize that for a woman to let you into her life she is taking a far bigger risk than you are.  She can genuinely sense what kind of person you really are.  The “force” is definitely “with” women when it comes to this stuff. She’ll instinctively know if you just want a one-night-stand even if you don’t know that you do.  The more you truly believe that you want to be with her, the more likely she is to say yes.  We agree … it’s very mystic.

The Morning After

It’s the morning after - you’re sticky, worried about your breath, there’s a funny tingle where there shouldn't be and your hair looks like a squirrel has been sleeping in it.  

Don’t wake up, leap out of bed and start dancing round the room chanting, “We did it, we did it!”  

Never slump your shoulders and say. “This might have been a mistake.”  Remember, women compare notes.  No matter how scared you are that you had unprotected sex, be cool, loving, and keep on flirting.  You may never see her again or you may wind up marrying her but either way she wants to know (believe) that this wasn’t a really bad mistake.  Oh and for heavens sake never try and reassure her by telling her that your last VD test was negative.

This is what you do.  You’ll either both feel really amazing and have sex again or you’ll feel a little awkward and need some time to reassess where you are.  If it’s the latter then you’ll take a shower and give her some personal space to clean her self up and regain her composure.  You will tell her what a fantastic time you had and how incredible it was to be with her.  You’ll kiss her neck and hold her without grabbing her breasts or bum.  You’ll agree to meet her later even if you don't set an actual time or date.. 

Make the Effort

Flirting is one of the magic ingredients that makes relationships work.  Don’t try and laugh this off.  If you do then one day you’ll be sitting in a divorce court, watching your life fall to pieces, and remember that we warned you! Never stop flirting with that one person you eventually love.

We hope that you've found Flirting Tips for Men useful. 

BEST OF LUCK!!!



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